Not Quite a Practical Joke

My Dad had a friend from work named Ron.  Ron was very much a character and there are many stories about him.  I believe he was at least 10 years younger than my Dad, married with 3 daughters (one of whom was my favorite babysitter and probably my first crush).  My memory of him is that he was always suntanned, always smoking and I think he used some sort of pomade in his hair.  My Dad and he got along like gangbusters and my Dad respected him in the way you respect someone who gets away with all the crazy things you don’t have the kahunas to do.

My Mom and Dad and Ron and his wife, Mary, went out to a nice dinner at (I believe) the Haufbrau Haus in Cleveland.  The Haufbrau Haus, like Red Lobster, was considered a red-letter, fancy restaurant.  Being the early 70s, it featured both a cocktail bar and a salad bar: sophisticated!

The wives went to the salad bar first while the husbands chatted at the table.  My Mom brought my Dad a salad and went back to get one for herself.

RON: What was that?

DAD: What was what?
RON: What just happened? Why do you get a salad?
DAD: [paternalistically]I’m the husband, Ron.  My wife understands that.  It’s how it should be.
RON: Really? Huh…
DAD: Women appreciate it when you let them do little things for you. You need to let Mary think you need her.
RON: Alright then. [Yelling across the restaurant]MARY? YOU MAY BRING ME MY SALAD!
MARY: [Yelling across the restaurant] RON? YOU MAY KISS MY ASS!

 That was one of my Dad’s favorite stories.

Practical Jokes: Undertakers

Sometime in his youth, not sure if it was before or after the Navy, my Dad worked for his friend’s family at the family funeral home.  I don’t know much about what my Dad did there but I can tell you that, as a young woman, I was not allowed to wear mauve because “that’s what old ladies are buried in.” Not wearing mauve would not seem like much of an inconvenience but, let’s remember, I came of age in the 1980s. When Mauve Was King.  Maybe that's what started me wearing so much black...

Mr. Dicken, my Dad’s friend, was a nice man.  He also looked exactly the way you would want an undertaker to look.  I can’t imagine any other profession for him—he seemed to be genetically predisposed for the profession.

So keep that image in your head, of a quietly dapper, tastefully bald older gentleman, and imagine such a man:

·         Standing in front of my Dad’s car thru three green lights once he realized he was walking in front of my Dad’s car at a crosswalk.

·         Throwing sugar packets across a Friendly’s Ice Cream Shop, trying to land one in my Dad’s cup of coffee.

·         Having the following conversation in a very busy Doctor’s Office waiting room:

       DAD: Harold! What brings you here?

MR.D: My foot’s bothering me.

DAD: What’s wrong with it?

MR.D: Don’t know.

DAD: You wash it?

MR.D: Do I what?

DAD: Do you wash it?

MR.D: [thoughtfully] Well, no.  I guess I don’t.

DAD: That’s your problem, Harold. 

MR.D: Ya think?

DAD: YES! Go home and wash it and you’ll see I’m right.

MR.D:  By golly, Jack! I think I will! [gets up and walks out of waiting room.]

 Aaaaand: Scene!  Geriatric performance art, people, geriatric performance art.

Practical Jokes: Women and Children

“Bob got transferred to Buffalo and his wife had to take his kids there on the train.  He asked us to see them off at the station so we did and as they were getting on I handed her a Jack-In-The-Box and told her it was for the kids when they started to get cranky, seeing it was such a long trip.  Well, half way there she gave the Jack-In -The-Box to the boys to play with.  I’d taped a Dixie Cup full of confetti to the doll’s head, so when it popped up, WOOOSH!  She said the porters all ignored her for the rest of the trip.”

Practical Jokes: Weddings #2

“Bill and I wore our bowling shirts to his rehearsal dinner.  Roberta wasn’t too pleased about that.”

Practical Jokes: Weddings

[I forget which friend was the victim of this so let’s just call him Hank] “It was a Catholic wedding so the bride and groom had to kneel at the altar.  We’d gotten ahold of Hank’s shoes and painted ‘HELP’ on the sole of the left one and ‘ME’ on the sole of the right one.” 
 
I usually remember the summation part of these stories but this one, I’m drawing a blank.  I’d like to think the joke went over well but I’m guessing the bride was pissed.

Childhood Story #4

“My Dad had a parrot.  Only thing it knew how to say was, ‘Folks goin’ home yet?’”

Childhood Story #3

"I won a beautiful baby contest.  It was one of those snake oil shows that would come thru towns back then.  Second place!”

Childhood Story #2

“There was a baby after me but he didn’t live long.  We were poor and I remember the menfolk taking down a door in the house to saw apart for a casket.  They used Aunt Billie’s wedding gown to line it.”

I’m cheating to include that story.  That was not from the usual Bedtime Story Repository.  As odd as the stories were that I heard in my youth, the older I got the more I learned about my family.   Hard times a lot of the time.

Last year I was confirming some genealogical info for my cousin and stumbled across an Ancestry.com entry of the baby’s death certificate.  His name was David.

Childhood Story

“My Dad thought he had real pretty feet.  He would lay back in his chair with his bare feet up on a hassock.  He would have Billy Sunday on the radio and he’d fall asleep but if we tried to change the station he’d wake up.  I remember braiding his hair while he sat there and Roy would roll cigarettes for him.  He was supposed to give us a penny for every dozen we rolled but he never paid up.”

Dating Story #8

“The first date I went on with your mother, I asked her out to dinner.  I picked her up and drove to White Castle.  I was just joking but she didn’t think it was funny.”

Dating Story #7

“I had a class ring and the girl I was dating wanted it.  I didn’t want to give it to her.  She was pretty insistent so I pretended to drop it and lose it.  While she was looking for it, I slipped it in my shoe.  Then I had to walk her home with the ring in my shoe, so it’s flat on one side.”

I'm being remiss in not posting a photo of the ring.  I have it and it is, indeed, flat on one side.

Dating Story #6

“June was a good lookin’ gal and she had her own car and when she’d see me walking she’d drive up on the sidewalk and say, ‘Get in the car, Jack—I’m gonna wind your watch!’”

Dating Story #5

“The Navy sent me to Brazil and when I left home there were two girls at school I was courting.  One of the fellas I bunked with would write love letters for the other guys to sign and send to their girls.  Well, I paid him a couple of bucks to write to my girls but he put the wrong letters in the wrong envelopes!  I heard that they met each other in the hall at school and one said, “I have something for you.” And the other said, “And I have something for YOU.”  Oooooh, I was never so glad to be overseas as I was when that happened!”

Dating Story #4

“Bill set me up on a blind date with this girl and she wasn’t my type but she had her eye on me.  We went out to dinner and she was getting pretty forward and I didn’t know how to damp her down so I decided to order the liver and onions—I figured that would keep her off me.  Well, she goes and orders the liver and onions and says, ‘I’m so glad you ordered first!  I wanted the liver and onions but I thought it might offend you!’  Sheeesh!”

Dating Story #3

“We drove out to the lake to neck and I left the radio on in the car.  The battery died and we had to get towed back to town.”

Dating Story #2

“Two of my buddies and I took our girls out on a date and since I was so skinny, I got stuck in the back seat with the girls.  The car hit a bump and one of the girls spilled her pocketbook so I was reaching around in the dark helping her pick everything up.  I found her compact and her wallet and then I said, ‘Hey, Inez—when did you start smoking cigars?’ [This was a rare moment in my Dad’s storytelling when he suddenly realized that I was 7. Thus, I would not understand the faux pas he just committed was mistaking a 1950s era tampon for a cigar.  When you are this far into the story, however, you cannot stage a retreat.  Fancy footwork was required:] Well, you, well, she didn’t take too kindly to that and it’s not good to talk about woman things in front of, well, on a date and so that pretty much ended the evening…”

Dating Story #1

Probably the largest genre of stories in my Dad’s repertoire could be described as “Dating Stories.”  My Dad was quite the looker and had many girlfriends.  Being a good Lutheran Boy, he never went too far—that might seem like overshare but I don’t want you to get the wrong idea about him.  Dating was dating and “necking” was alright but things never went “too far.”

He and my Mom got married in 1957 after a long engagement.  The difference in their religions caused some trouble; he was Lutheran and she was Catholic.  I would define that as a difference in denominations but I am obviously not attuned to what this issue meant to them.  That being said, all dating stories thus take place between 1941 (when he entered High School) and 1957. 

Now, which one to start with?  Let’s meet up with him after the war:

“When I got back from the Navy I was working as a short order cook at a root beer stand called Dog N’ Suds.  There was a good looking waitress there and she and I ended up going out on a date. When I walked her back to her apartment she said, ‘Gee, Jack—I’d invite you upstairs but my husband’s asleep.’ ZOOOOOOM! I never ran so fast in all my LIFE!”

I’m guessing the “ZOOOOM!” was dramatic license but the rest is probably true.

The Title Story

This is a story my father would tell to me when I was very young--still in elementary school, definately.

In the last year of my Dad's life I mentioned this story to him and he claimed it had never happened.  Here it is, as told to me: 

"I joined the Navy when I was 17--I lied and told them I was 18.  I was skinny, oooooh I was skinny!  I weighed about 115 pounds.  The first day on the ship all the new recruits had to go up on deck and present ourselves to the Admiral. We were all dressed in our dress whites.  The Admiral walked the deck giving all the new guys the once-over.  Then he got to me--he looked me up and down and said:

'BENFORD: YOUR ASS LOOKS LIKE TWO SQUIRREL HEADS TIED IN A HANDKERCHIEF!'"

 

Yes.  Of course.  That's exactly the type of story an 8 year old girl would dream up.